Read Matthew 10:35-45; Love Does Not Envy

LOVE DOES NOT E N V Y

1)    Definition:

a)    A strong human emotion that leads to action.  Can be used in a good sense (God is a jealous God; we are to be jealous for good works, Titus 2:14. See also 2 Cor. 7:7,11; 9:2; 11:2.) or in an evil sense (as in this study).  (Kittle)

b)    Any wrong feeling excited in view of the god of others. (Charles Hodge)

c)     "The ear is never undervaluing itself because it is not the eye.  The ear is rejoicing in the brilliance of the eye." (G. Campbell Morgan)

d)    "Love is not displeased at the success of others." (Leon Morris)

e)    "It does not begrudge the greater privileges and gifts of others, or seek out gain for itself." (Alan Redpath)

f)      To be zealous against a person; to be jealous or envious. (Albert Barnes)

2)    Underlying Principles:

a)    God exalts and humbles whomever He will.

b)    God is the giver of every good and perfect gift.

3)    Illustrations:

a)    Sibling rivalry:

(1)   Cain and Abel: Gen. 4:1-12.

(2)   Joseph and his brothers: Acts 7:9; Gen 37:3-4,8,11-36.

(3)   Prodigal and brother: Luke 15:25-32.

b)    King David: 1 Sam 18:1-16; 20.

c)     Disciples of Christ: Mark 10:35-45.

d)    Enemies of Christ: Acts 5:17; 13:45; 17:5.

4)    Biblical principles:

a)    That envy/jealousy is contrary to healthy relationships should be clear.  But just in case, from the following passages what difficulties in relationship are tied to envy/jealousy?  What one problem is mentioned in every passage?

i)      Rom. 13:13

ii)     1 Cor 3:3

iii)    2 Cor 12:20

iv)    Gal 5:20

v)     James 3:14,16

5)    In James 4:1-3, how does envy cause trouble in relationships? What must be "put off" (sins to be repented of) and what must be "put on" so that our love is not filled with envy? 

6)    Application:

a)    Memorize Titus 2:14.

b)    Is prayer for the people in your life part of your regular schedule of activities?  Do you pray for their success and prosperity?

c)     Be filled with the Spirit.  That is, immerse yourself in the person of Christ through your fellowship with God.  Yield yourself to Him.  In this way you become conformed to the image of Christ.