We now move to 1 Tim. 4:12. The first verb is a negative: let no one despise your youth. It means, of course, to think little or nothing of someone or something. With only 9x in the NT we can easily get a sense of this. Hang on because I think it is important for Timothy to hear Paul say this.
· Mt. 6:24: You cannot serve two masters; you will be loyal to one and despise the other. Cf. also Lk. 16:13.
· 18:10: Don’t despise these “little ones” for their angels behold My Father’s face.
· Rom. 2:4: Do you despise the riches of God’s goodness, forbearance, longsuffering, not knowing His goodness leads you to repentance?
· 1 Cor. 11:22: Believers despise the church of God when they mistreat their brethren at the Lord’s Table.
· 1 Tim. 4:12 (our passage about young Timothy) and 6:2: Servants with believing masters should not despise them because they are brethren.
· Heb. 12:2: Jesus despised the shame of the cross (thought little of it).
· 2 Pt. 2:10: Among other things, false teachers walk according to the flesh in the lust of uncleanness and despise authority. Jude 1:8-9 explains this, that the authorities are angelic/demonic. Don’t think little of or underestimate them.
What do we learn from this? I have had to deal with this in my life. There are pastors who have world-wide or nation-wide or church-wide reputations. And that’s not necessarily bad. In the first century there were the Paul’s and Peter’s and Apollos’s and so forth. But the fact that Timothy did not have their standing (how could he; he must say as they all must say, “by the grace of God I am what I am?) did not mean he did not have an appointment by Christ to what he was doing. Paul reminded Timothy of this (4:14). If someone came along and said because he was young they did not have to respect his ministry he should not listen to them.
I experienced this a lot in my ministry. I would often hear from people how great so-and-so was that they watch on TV Sunday morning before coming to church, or to such-and-such a Christian author who had better ways to say it than I did. It was not something I felt or responded to out of pride because I was the type of person who might have my own self-doubts. But then I would do as Paul told Timothy to do. I would remind myself that my appointment was of Christ. He put me in the position of shepherd in this particular church. John MacArthur or David Jeremiah (good men in my view) were not pastor of this church, no matter how great their preaching. They did not know the people as I did. They were not going to show up in their homes as I was. As I yielded myself to the Head of the Church He would enable me to shepherd this flock, and the sheep would be foolish to despise my not-so-famous ministry. There! Got that out of my system. 😊