Continuing with Jeremiah’s stressful situation in Lamentations 3.
· 3:25-26: The LORD is good to those who wait for Him, to the soul who seeks Him. I suspect this was an observation based in Jeremiah’s previous understanding of God. The OT is full of both admonitions and illustrations of the necessity of waiting on the LORD. Jeremiah spent some time in a dungeon, specifically, a muddy cistern that served as a prison. In due time he was released and helped out of the muck by friends he may not have known that he had (Jer. 38:1-13). Earlier, he had struggled when his own family members (priests!) had refused to heed his preaching of the word of the LORD. In these situations he had likely learned the value of waiting on the LORD. Which leads to the next thought.
· 3:27-30: Afflictions are really good for us, and, if we bear them aright, will work very much for our good. It is good for a man to bear the yoke in his youth. Often, those who deal with PTSD have experienced significant trauma as young men or women. That is the nature of those involved in the military as well as first-responders. They may not have had very many difficult experiences by which they could learn. Further, you may not think it would ever be valuable to have these devastating situations. But here is something to consider from the Bible: trauma, tribulation, hard times are common for everyone. Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 is a passage many people have heard: a time for every purpose under heaven. But what it is saying is that eventually, typically, we will all experience these things. If we have suffered in our youth we are better prepared for the sufferings that come later. It’s called maturity. And even now, if you are in unimaginable stress, how you see the situation is not only important for today but also for your tomorrow. Jeremiah also said, Let him sit alone and keep silent because God has laid it on him. In other words, God is at work in us at these times.
Some may be offended by this thought, that God brings these hard times so as to benefit us. But this is based on two truths about God. God is our Creator; He made us and thus owns us and has given us purpose in living. And second, God loves us! God is at work in us to give us hope in the hard times. A strong sense of “hope” must be learned in order to succeed at life. It is best to begin the building the hope in our early years, to know that life will not always be the “fun times” associated with our youth.
May I also say there is a lesson here for parents. Sometimes parents consider it their responsibility to shield their children from trials and tribulations, to always come to their defense even when they have been in the wrong. It makes so much more sense to say that a good parent will seek to guide their children through the hard times. This is necessary preparation for a normal life.